So choices...we all have some of those, right? The words that our tour guide spoke really stuck with me. (see post below) Here's my thing, one can not expect everyone to make the same choice, the right choice if you will, when people have such a wide range of opportunities and experiences. Opportunity will forever go hand-in-hand with choice. Let me expand on this a little bit.
During this courthouse trip we were also able to witness a woman being sentenced for a series of shoplifting offenses. While the details of the case weren't completely clear, what was clear was that the woman stole designer handbags and resold them because she needed the money to survive. There were several indicators that this woman was not stealing to become rich. She had a child at home, she did not speak one word of English, and she did not have a high school diploma. While there are jobs out there for the non-English speaking, the managers of these jobs often take advantage of their employees. They are rarely on the books, hence they are often forced to work both sporadic and long hours for very little pay.
Taking all of this into account, I ask you: What choice did she really have? Not that I'm condoning bad behavior, but certainly I can understand why this woman resorted to theft. I expressed my sympathy for the woman to our tour guide...her response: "Well if you needed money, would you go out an steal?" I said nothing aloud because at this point it was not worth debating over, but I wanted to respond with a "Well no, but then again I have a college degree." As a matter of fact, I have tons of privilege that this woman didn't. I am childless. I am a natural born citizen. I speak English. I have official job experiences (including references). I have a social security number. I am about to earn my Masters degree. I am upwardly mobile. I have a supportive family. True, she and I are both women of color from impoverished urban households, but I can not pretend that the choices I have made were ever even an option for her.
Surely I do not mean to generalize. There are always exceptions to statistics. One set of circumstances will not always have universal outcomes, but poverty is a hell of a thing. Poverty is an often time inescapable, cyclic, trap. To top it off, as if this woman didn't have enough financial woes, her charges ended up resulting in over 2,000 dollars worth of fines. I wonder how she will be able to support her child, pay her fines, and obtain employment with a record when she gets out of jail. Maybe she'll just "choose"... a miracle.
Tune in tomorrow for a look at motherhood and incarceration...much love people. Comment if you want!!!!!